You're not lazy.
You're leaking energy in places
you haven't noticed yet.

I spent a decade mapping where mine went. Here's what I found.

Somewhere in your 30s, you realize you can't muscle through everything anymore. The people who handle it well aren't superhuman—they've just gotten serious about three skills: noticing what's actually happening, deciding what actually matters, and focusing when it counts. I'm building tools and sharing systems for people who want to stop surviving and start being present for their own lives.